Friday, June 1, 2012

Sidelined

Second run in to my second week of my new exercise endeavor and my left knee goes out.  After I limped up the hill and logged on to my computer, there was an obvious diagnosis.  Runner's Knee.  I'm not even an official runner for crying out loud and I have runner's knee already?  Three days since the hurt began, and it's worse today.  I limp around, move slow, look and feel like an old woman.

Today I ponder whether to schedule an acupuncture appointment.  Since it's not just going away like I would hope.  I also ponder what my next step will be.  My Saturday hike will not happen.  Walking around my neighborhood is out of the question.  I could probably swim, though I am allergic to chlorine and recoil at the thought of appearing in public in a bathing suit.  As there is much suffering in this world both near and far to me at the moment, I feel foolish for worrying about such things.  Really, my biggest problem is feeling self conscious in a bathing suit?  How shallow and trivial can I be?

But my deeper concern, the one that lives in my gut and makes me nauseous, is that being sidelined will be the first step towards abandoning my goal to climb Mt. Hood next spring.  One thing leads to another and I tumble down the rabbit hole and lose sight.  This is familiar territory for me, my numerous starts and stops, my list of goals never achieved.  And for reasons still unclear to me, there is a glowing ball of fear resting on my 40th birthday next April 23rd.  The fear whispers, pulses in my ears. 

If you don't meet this goal, if you fail yet again, if you let yourself down another time, you will simply languish and fade away. 

But since I'm not one to sink in to the muck too far, an idea comes to mind.  I know where I need to steer myself.  The ball of fear needs to knocked out of the park.  Crushed. 

I just Googled the question, "What is the opposite of fear?"  Answers, "Bravery, courage, fearlessness (of course), heroism, unconcern." 

So I need to be the hero who bravely conquers the fear.

Conquer the fears of fading away, of letting myself down, of tumbling down the rabbit hole, and wearing a bathing suit in public.



4 comments:

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    1. Thanks Kelly! Absolutely would love to follow you as well.

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  2. Hello Clover. I know people who have had knee injuries and I would encourage to not put off getting medical or acupuncture attention. Plus it will take some of the anxiety about healing away if you know you are addressing the problem the best way possible. I recently passed the dreaded milestone of my 50th birthday so don't worry - you are young!

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    1. Thanks for reading Carol. The doctor diagnosed it as bursitis which is really easy to heal and should be avoidable with better shoes. Good news as far as knee injuries go.

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